Oprah’s show yesterday was all about good news. One of her guests was Pastor Will Bowen from Kansas City and how a challenge to his congregation has taken off into a national movement.
The pastor gave members of his congregation a purple bracelet and challenged them to not complain for 21 days. It is said that afer 3 weeks – 21 days – of doing something, it becomes routine. The idea is to get rid of the negative energy that complaining can bring into our lives.
You were the bracelet on one wrist. If you complain, then switch the braclet to the opposite wrist. The idea is to wear the bracelet on the same wrist for 21 days in a row. Will said that he did achieve this, but it was a test because he had to be accountable to his congregation.
Christ Church Unity has a website A Complaint Free World.org where you can order a bracelet. The bracelets are free. The past 7 months the church has mailed over 1 million bracelets. It can take up to 5 weeks for delivery. Some people have actually complained about it taking so long to receive their free bracelet. I think they are kind of missing the whole point of the idea.
If you want to start, then you really don’t need a bracelet. These bracelets are very popular, and you might have one stuck in a drawer. It may not be purple, but that really doesn’t matter. You can even wear a rubber band if you don’t have any of thes bracelets. Follow the same rules and try to keep it on the same wrist for 21 days.
I complain so much that this will be a real challenge. I really have nothing to complain about. It’s like the this quote I’ve heard before, “I use to complain about not having shoes until I met a man with no feet..” Oprah was funny because she said she knew a couple of people she wanted to give one of these bracelets. I had the same thought. She asked if that counted as a complaint, and the pastor told her he would leave it up to her to decide. It really has to do with how you mean a comment rather than what you say. A good rule of thumb is that if you are questioning whether it’s a complaint, then you probably already know the answer. Switch that bracelet to the other wrist, and move on.
